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Create the Life you Want.

Are you the team manager at work and you want to be a team member at home? To make the relationship just the way you want it to be, you need to change your thinking. "You can't Solve a Problem with the Same Thinking as you Created it."
- Albert Einstein

Complete Validation

No matter what your problems you will feel completely acknowledged and validated. 


The solution is within you . 

 Uncover your strengths  in order that you live the empowered life you want. 

In a completely confidential and judgement free space you will be able to fully feel again. 

You both will feel completely connected again. Connect to self and  connected with each other! 

Online Or Face to Face

Most coaching is done on zoom links however if you prefer we can work face to face in my room.

My clients have enjoyed transformation moments in either situation. 


Take Responsibility

Discover Your True Self

Develop a Plan going forward

When I was married  I was completely in blame.

I blamed him for my unhappiness. I kept the peace at the expense of my mattering. I didn’t believe I mattered. I have since learnt that it was, and had always been, up to me  to take complete responsibility for the choices I make. It came as a shock.

I learnt that I had to build trust with myself before I could build trust with others. 

Our happiness levels are  shaped by our choices  and  our behaviours.

Time to take responsibility.   I changed my behaviours and now I belong with myself so I can belong with others.  And you can be too.

 Become the person you want to attract into your life. Yes really!

Each of you has individual sessions where you can begin to understand the defining moments and the limiting beliefs that have led you to this point in your life.

Then you will learn how to communicate your inner truth with your partner.

Much of  what triggers us is unmet needs from our childhood and not who we really truly are. It is a way of being that made sense when we were young.

Learn who you truly are and begin to imperfectly implement  new strategies which will create a life of joy and  daily celebration.

We are shaped by our conditioning.

Each of us responds to a situation in a different way. We see similar situations through different eyes.

By changing our thinking and behaviour we can change so much of what is causing us stress and grief. 

Together, become really clear on the long term vision and mission for your life together  and develop the structures and strategies that will achieve these results, for you and your family. 




Bec came to me because she wanted change in her relationship. 


“We came to Jan at a bit of a crossroads in our relationship. We were both working hard and juggling family commitments which had left no time for us and as the disconnect grew between us we were struggling to find our way back to each other.
Jan helped us remember why we chose each other in the first place, consider how our own upbringings and experiences with relationship role models was playing out in our own relationship.
Jan facilitated deep, honest and very real conversations in a supportive and safe way which helped us to be vulnerable, present and hear each other in a way that we hadn’t for some time.
Working with Jan has been a real gift to each of us but more than that, it has helped to reconnect and strengthen our relationship. I absolutely recommend Jan and her program!”
– Rebecca

WHOLEHEARTED US program Valued at $15097 yours for $4997

18 Sessions over 6 months

To experience the truest version of you and start the road to the emotionally Intimate relationship of your dreams and if relevant have happy connected children.

One individual session each and one session together every month. 

And as an added bonus are two meta profiles each and a values elicitation for each of you.

Valued at $15,097 including two bonuses Meta Dynamics Thinking Profile and Values’ Elicitation .

And because you both are taking action right now. I will gift you with a Your Ultimate Self Program valued at $997

Meta Dynamics TM Thinking Profile

Values' Elicitation

Meta Dynamics Profiling Tool and unpack The Meta Dynamics TM Profiling Tool is a 16-dimension questionnaire that assesses an individual’s preferences particularly in the everyday context. Each dimension refers to a specific part of thinking styles such as influencing, resiliency, outcome focused .

We unpack the profiles together and discover why there are times of conflict and harmony. 

And create a plan going forward.

To live the life we truly want we need to live by our values.

Our goals and the plan for our life must be congruent with our values in order for us to feel a sense of true purpose and meaning.

You each discover your own values in individual sessions and then jointly we unpack conflicting and similar harmonious values and create goals and a vision and mission for your life. 

Let's Chat

Let’s talk about how we can work together to make your life the way you want it to be.

Register your details and you will qualify for a complimentary 1-1 session worth $297 

I look forward to helping you find true empowerment.